CyTube has been crashing recently due to things attempting to release
the reference after the channel was already closed (apparently the
uncaughtException handler isn't called for this?). This newer
implementation keeps track of what is ref'ing and unref'ing it, so it
can log an error if it detects a discrepancy.
Also changed the server to not delete the refCounter field from the
channel when it's unloaded, so that should reduce the number of errors
stemming from it being null/undefined.
If two people tried to play the same playlist item, before the playlist updated, it would delete instead of playing.
The same would also happen if the play button was double-clicked instead of single-clicked.
Also, the active item's play button functioned as a delete button.
Fully tested. Still removes the item (if it was added as temporary) when it finishes playing, or if the play button of a *different* item is clicked.
